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Thank you, Joyce, for writing this piece for me. I needed to read it.❤️🙃

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Nice thoughts, Joyce. Thank you for the reminders!

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Thank you for this.

I have been struggling to catch up with the reality of my 60th birthday which is very soon and trying so hard not to think about the fewer years remaining than the ones behind me.

The opportunities and value of older women is something our developed societies have scarcely begun to explore or appreciate and it's so good that spaces such as this, and writers such as yourself, are bringing it to the fore.

I am glad you didn't go to Mexico: it surely means a lot more time for writing, and we shall get more of your thoughts here.

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Apr 17Liked by Joyce Wycoff

There's a lot of wisdom here for someone who's just entering the golden years. You've particularly caught my attention with " you were blessed with a good, long life. Don’t become a grump at the end! And, leave this with someone who can read it to you in case you can’t."

You're one creative lady who I'm confident will keep producing good things until you can't.

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Apr 17Liked by Joyce Wycoff

As I read I could hear myself say yes, yes ,yes, a damn good post

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Apr 17Liked by Joyce Wycoff

Hello my dear friend, thank you so much for this piece to ponder on. The one point that rather gob smacked me was making peace and coming to the realization that some things are done for the last time. Whew, why is that one so difficult? It made me cry even though I too have had a wonderful full life. In the meantime, I will continue to do what I can although sometimes with a different approach.

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That's your best article, ever, Joyce. That's saying a lot to someone who produces one winner after the next. Talking to the older self seems real because we might do something with that great advice. Talking to our younger self seems silly, unless it is overhead by someone who has not yet gone as long and as far as you.

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I believe that you have struck on something very edifying for millions: Letter to Your Older Self & The Dandelion Drifts poem.

😉 (Dare I encourage you to submit this more broadly?)

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I might just say “Yes”, still I can do that Now

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